Ugh as much as I hate java I did it lol here is how in case it ever comes up again
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<script type="text/javascript" src="scripts/textover.js"></script>
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<td><input type="hidden" name="on2" value="Your Name" />
Your Name
<textarea name="os2" class="createinput" onfocus="if(this.value=='Type your name and hit tab to
preview')this.value='';" onblur="if(this.value=='')this.value='Type your name and hit tab to preview';"
onchange="CamsTagPre()" rows="1">Type your name and hit tab to preview</textarea></td>
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<th scope="col" id="bgimgrt" height="105"><div id="previewtag" align="left" style="font-size: 50px;
font-weight: normal; font-family: arial; color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"><nobr>Your Name</nobr></div>
</th>
Message me if anyone needs textover.js