Flash with IE9 Options

[Jomathr]

Good day,

I am trying to update a friend's website and he was using a WYSIWYG software (WebAcappella 4).

I added 2 videos wich work perfectly fine in Chrome and FF but in IE9 it works on the first load but if I switch page or refresh then it stops working.
I am aware that IE9 has a problem with flash so I tried the following solutions

CODE

<script type="text/javascript">
var load:URLLoader = new URLLoader();
load.load(new URLRequest("qualubre.flv" + "?cache=" + new Date().getTime()));
</script>

and

CODE

<meta http-equiv="expires" content="0">

for the page/video not to be cached sinced it seemed to work on first load, but that didn't do anything

also tried

CODE

<meta http-equiv="X-UA-Compatible" content="IE=IE8" />

That last one allows me to play the flash video correctly but css is all messed up because of it, anyworkaround for either the css or flash?

here are the links to the pages I am trying to fix

http://salubri-ressources.com/dev/crbst_6.html
http://salubri-ressources.com/dev/crbst_7.html

thank you in advance for your help